Collaboration is essential for any company, especially at the leadership level. However, even when everyone has the best intentions, conflicts can still arise. Senior directors often face challenges in working together, particularly in complex situations involving multiple departments. By understanding the underlying obstacles to collaboration, teams can work more effectively and cohesively.
The Misconception: Feeling Like You “Own” Your Projects
A common barrier to collaboration is the belief that you “own” a project or client. In corporate settings, some senior leaders might feel a sense of ownership over their clients, departments, or initiatives, leading to unnecessary competition with others. In reality, no one truly “owns” these relationships. Every team member—whether it’s a client or an internal stakeholder—is part of a dynamic network. These relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication, which ultimately leads to better results for the entire organization.
Example:
Consider a scenario where a Senior Director of Marketing is working on a campaign with a key client. Meanwhile, the Senior Director of Sales wants to introduce the client to new service offerings. If the Marketing Director feels possessive about the relationship, tension could arise. However, when both directors focus on how they can collaborate for the client’s benefit, the results are much more impactful, and the client appreciates the combined effort.
The Distortion of Owning and Fear of Losing
A major challenge that distorts collaboration is the mindset of ownership and the fear of losing. When leaders view their relationships or projects as something they “own,” it limits their ability to cooperate freely. This mindset often stems from the fear of “losing” when working with others—losing control, recognition, or status. But this fear arises from a distorted view of how business relationships work.
Rather than seeing clients or projects as possessions, it’s helpful to recognize that they are part of a broader ecosystem. Every leader and team member is ultimately working towards the same higher goal: the company’s overall success. Shifting away from the idea of “owning” relationships allows leaders to embrace the collective benefits of collaboration and achieve much more together than they would separately.
Hidden Agendas and the Need for Shared Intention
The fear of losing often signals a deeper issue: a lack of shared higher intention among team members. When leaders operate from this fear, they may develop hidden agendas, attempting to maintain control or status within the organization. This not only undermines the team’s efforts but also prevents the company from progressing as effectively as it could. True collaboration happens when leaders align their intentions with the company’s broader vision and focus on shared goals, letting go of personal fears and working toward collective success.
Example:
Imagine a Senior Director of Product Development who hesitates to collaborate with the Chief Technology Officer on a new product rollout due to concerns about losing control. By refocusing on what benefits the company as a whole, both leaders can contribute their expertise to a higher-quality outcome. The product performs better in the market, and both departments succeed because of the collaborative effort.
The Power of an Abundance Mindset
An abundance mindset is an antidote to the fear of losing. Rather than viewing collaboration as a threat, an abundance mindset allows leaders to see it as an opportunity to create more value for the company. This perspective shift reduces anxiety, encourages open communication, and fosters a sense of trust. Recognizing that success can be shared by everyone allows leaders to approach collaboration with confidence and positivity.
Conclusion: Focus on Collective Success
Collaboration is not a competition where one leader wins and another loses. At the senior level, true success comes from working together to achieve the company’s ultimate goals. By letting go of the distorted belief in ownership and the fear of losing, leaders can contribute to a culture of trust, transparency, and shared purpose. This mindset shift enables the entire organization to thrive, ensuring that every success benefits not just individuals but the company as a whole.
Curated by Bill Pham from Vietnam.
The content is coming from:L. Michael Hall
2024 Framers #43
September 13, 2024
(Written in 2018)